You can reach me joy at: joy.kusek (at) ahss.org

I am Joy, a happily married mother of two waterbirthed babies. I am a doula and a Lamaze Certified Childbirth Educator, who worked as a midwife's assistant at a freestanding birth center in TX. As of 2015, I'm a full-time nursing student who teaches childbirth classes at Park Ridge Health, The Baby Place, in Hendersonville, NC. I love serving laboring moms and I enjoy teaching birth education. I use this blog to write about it all - my life, my children, and my passion of all things childbirth.
Recent Posts
- Nursing School: Eat That Elephant
- Joy’s Top Ten Most Read Posts of 2013
- Our Green Acre Giveaway! And Awkward High School Stories & Pictures
- Where Have I Been And Why Have I Been Away So Long?
- Birth Sensations & Protecting The Perineum Through It All
- A Letter To My Daughter On Her 4th Birthday
- Dear Mommy Blogger: Your Perfection Makes Me Distrust You
- The Best Parenting Advice I Ever Received Wasn’t Spoken
- 10 Ways To Feel Miserable As A Parent
- Mother-Led Weaning: How and Why I Gently Weaned My Son
- The Birth Interview Project Returns
- How I Learned to Support A Mother’s Choice Not To Breastfeed
- Parenting Tips Shared on Facebook and The Implosion of a Million Emotions
- The Birth of A Mother Quote
- Writer’s Block & What The Newtown Tragedy Taught Me About Love
- How I Survived Babydom | 17 Must-Have Baby Items
- I Didn’t Have A Voice
- Facts on Postpartum Depression and My Responsibility as a Childbirth Educator
- A Painful Childhood Memory Casts Light on My Quest As a Mother
- A Letter to My Daughter on the First Day of Preschool and Her First Interview
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- Life in Austin (9)
- Life in Chicago (4)
- Life in Denton (12)
- Life in Israel (26)
- Me and Myself (25)
- Misc (3)
- Mommy Thoughts (25)
- My Daughter (21)
- My Husband (19)
- My Son (27)
- Photo Quotes, Memes & Infographics (23)
- Poetry (5)
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- The Birth Interview Project (31)
- Tutorials, Tips & Advice (14)
Archives
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Childbirth Resources
- Easier Chilbirth with Fetal Positioning
- European Doula Network
- Inanna Birth and Women's Care
- Is pain in childbirth necessary?
- Lamaze International
- Postpartum Depression Resource
- Practical Ways to Comfort a Woman in Labor – PDF LINK
- Printable Handouts on Pregnancy, Labor, Breastfeeding and Newborn Care
- The Birth Muse
- Why choose delayed cord clamping?
Do you have any doula recommendations in Orange County California?
Joy, I am so happy to have stumbled upon your blog. Thanks for sharing your heart and wisdom.
I felt very comforted by your blog.
I felt like I was reading my own story (regarding breastfeeding).
Thank you for sharing you’re experience. It has helped me and given me encouragement to begin weaning more actively and not feel guilty.
I’m lucky to have breastfed my 15 month old exclusively, but I just cannot endure these chronic plugged ducts anymore.
Thank you so much!
Greetings, I am just starting my midwifery Homebirth service in northern California and am building a weebly website. I have over 220 births as a primary midwife but I lost all my birth photos due to a leaky storage unit we rented. It destroyed a lot of precious belongings. In sending you this message to ask if I may use your must have the Courage of a Lion pic on my website. I will happily credit you for the image! Are you open to that? I May like to use other material from your website as well for educational purposes and again, I would credit you always
I will wait to hear back from you
Blessings and light
April
Hello!
I am a hopeful future midwife (currently in nursing school) and I recently came across your blog and wow, I just love it!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to educate strangers about midwifery and birth. I especially loved how you have included how to support women in who are giving birth in a hospital setting, and your posts about the different stages of labor. Keep up the amazing work, the time you spend blogging is so appreciated! I would love to see a future post about how midwives and doulas interact during a homebirth setting, or a post on water a water birth is like from a midwives standpoint (how they interact with the mother, and check on her labor). Anywho love this blog!!!
Kind regards,
Jauni May
Hi there,
Do you work in the Austin area? I can’t seem to find where you are located on this site.
Thanks!
Lauren
Hi Lauren, I’m in Asheville, NC area. At one time I did live in Austin though.